A well trained dog is a joy and the confidence it bestows on yourself and your pet is empowering. A few weeks of consistent playful training will last a lifetime.
So let’s explore the 4 basic commands…
🪑 SIT: The Gateway to Obedience
Purpose: Sit is often the first command taught. It helps calm your dog and is a great starting point for impulse control.
Why It Matters
- Establishes calm behaviour and impulse control.
- Acts as a polite default behaviour (e.g., before meals, greetings, crossing roads).
- Builds a foundation for more advanced commands.
🪑 1. Sit
How to Teach:
- Step 1: Hold a treat close to your dog’s nose.
- Step 2: Slowly move the treat upward, causing their head to follow and their bottom to lower.
- Step 3: As soon as they sit, say “Sit” and give the treat.
- Step 4: Repeat several times in short sessions.
Tips:
- Use a cheerful tone.
- Practice before meals when your dog is food-motivated.
- Avoid pushing their rear down—let them figure it out
Advanced Teaching Tips
- Add duration: Once your dog sits reliably, delay the reward by a few seconds to build patience.
- Add distractions: Practice in different environments—garden, park, near other dogs.
- Use it as a reset: If your dog is overstimulated, asking for a Sit can help them refocus.
Troubleshooting
- Dog won’t sit? Try luring with a treat closer to their chest, not above their head.
- Dog pops up quickly? Reward only after a few seconds of holding the position.
🛏️ LIE DOWN: Encouraging Calm and Control
Purpose: Sit is often the first command taught. It helps calm your dog and is a great starting point for impulse control.
Why It Matters
Purpose: This command encourages relaxation and is useful in situations where you want your dog to settle.
- Promotes relaxation and submission.
- Useful in public settings (cafés, vet clinics, waiting rooms).
- Precursor to “settle” or “place” commands.
🛏️ 2. Lie Down
How to Teach:
- Step 1: Start with your dog in a sitting position.
- Step 2: Hold a treat near their nose, then slowly move it down to the floor and outwards.
- Step 3: As they follow the treat, their body should lower into a lying position.
- Step 4: Say “Down” and reward immediately.
Tips:
- Be patient—some dogs take longer to feel comfortable lying down.
- Practice on soft surfaces to encourage compliance.
- Avoid saying “Down” if you use that word for getting off furniture—use “Lie Down” instead.
Advanced Teaching Tips
- Add a release cue: “Free” or “Okay” lets your dog know when they can get up.
- Use shaping: If your dog struggles, reward incremental progress—head down, elbows bent, etc.
- Practice “Down from a distance”: Build toward giving the command from across the room or field.
Troubleshooting
- Dog resists lying down? Try practicing on a soft surface or after exercise when they’re more relaxed.
- Dog lies down but pops up? Reward only after a longer hold, and use a calm voice to reinforce the behaviour.
🐾 RECALL (“Come”): The Lifesaver Command
Purpose: Recall is critical for safety, especially off-leash. It teaches your dog to return to you promptly.
Why It Matters
- Critical for safety—especially off-leash or in emergencies.
- Builds trust and strengthens your bond.
- Allows freedom without sacrificing control.
How to Teach:
- Step 1: Start indoors or in a secure area.
- Step 2: Say your dog’s name followed by “Come” in an upbeat tone.
- Step 3: Back away as they approach, then reward with treats and praise.
- Step 4: Gradually increase distance and distractions.
Tips:
- Never punish your dog after they come—even if they were slow.
- Make coming to you the best thing ever: treats, toys, affection.
- Use a long lead for outdoor practice.
Advanced Teaching Tips
- Use high-value rewards: Cheese, chicken, or a favorite toy—make it worth their while.
- Practice “restrained recall”: Have someone hold your dog while you call them excitedly.
- Add games: Hide-and-seek or chase-and-return builds enthusiasm.
Troubleshooting
- Dog ignores recall? Never punish—recall must always be positive. Rebuild with short distances and high-value rewards.
- Dog comes slowly? Use movement—run away, clap, cheer—to make yourself more engaging.
🧍 STAY: Building Patience and Reliability
Purpose: Stay teaches your dog to remain in place until released. It’s vital for impulse control and safety.
Why It Matters
- Prevents bolting or wandering in risky situations.
- Essential for grooming, vet visits, and household management.
- Builds mental discipline and self-control.
How to Teach:
- Step 1: Ask your dog to Sit or Lie Down.
- Step 2: Say “Stay” with a hand signal (open palm).
- Step 3: Take one step back, then return and reward if they haven’t moved.
- Step 4: Gradually increase distance and duration.
Tips:
- Use a release word like “Okay” or “Free” to end the stay.
- If they break the stay, calmly reset without scolding.
- Practice in various environments to build reliability.
Advanced Teaching Tips
- Use the 3 D’s: Duration, Distance, Distraction. Increase one at a time.
- Proofing: Practice Stay while tossing toys, walking around, or having guests enter.
- Use a marker word: “Good” or “Yes” to reinforce holding the position before releasing.
Troubleshooting
- Dog breaks the stay? Don’t scold—just calmly reset. Lower the difficulty and build back up.
- Dog anticipates release? Vary the time before releasing to prevent pattern learning.
🧠 Training Progression Framework
| Stage | Focus | Environment |
| 1. Lure & Reward | Teach the behaviour | Quiet, distraction-free |
| 2. Cue & Response | Add verbal cue | Indoors, familiar |
| 3. Duration & Distance | Build reliability | Garden, driveway |
| 4. Distraction & Proofing | Real-world readiness | Park, public spaces |
The following are a slightly more comprehensive set of training instructions which you can review and incorporate into your training as things progress.
🛏️ LIE DOWN
How to Teach:
- Start with your dog in a Sit.
- This gives you a stable starting point and helps guide the movement downward.
- Use a lure.
- Hold a treat close to your dog’s nose.
- Slowly move the treat straight down between their front paws, then slightly forward along the ground.
- Encourage the full motion.
- As your dog follows the treat, their elbows should bend and their chest should lower to the floor.
- The moment they lie down, say “Lie Down” (or “Down”) and reward immediately.
- Add the verbal cue.
- Once your dog reliably follows the lure, say “Lie Down” before you move the treat.
- Reward only when they respond to the cue without needing the lure.
- Practice short durations.
- Ask for a Lie Down, wait 2–3 seconds, then release with a cue like “Free” or “Okay.”
- Gradually increase the time they stay down before releasing.
- Generalize the behavior.
- Practice in different rooms, on different surfaces, and with mild distractions.
🐾 RECALL (“COME”)
How to Teach:
- Start in a quiet, enclosed space.
- Indoors or a fenced garden is ideal for early practice.
- Use a cheerful tone and body language.
- Say your dog’s name followed by “Come!” while crouching or clapping to encourage movement.
- Reward generously.
- When your dog comes to you, give high-value treats, praise, or play.
- Make it a party every time—they should love coming to you.
- Add distance gradually.
- Start with just a few feet, then increase the distance as your dog becomes more reliable.
- Practice with a long line.
- Use a 10–30 ft lead outdoors to give freedom while maintaining control.
- Call your dog and gently reel them in if needed, then reward.
- Proof with distractions.
- Practice around mild distractions (toys, other dogs, smells).
- Always reward—even if they’re slow to respond.
- Use games to reinforce.
- Try “ping-pong recall” with two people calling the dog back and forth.
- Hide-and-seek builds excitement and responsiveness.
🧍 STAY
How to Teach:
- Start with a Sit or Lie Down.
- Choose whichever position your dog is most comfortable holding.
- Introduce the cue.
- Say “Stay” while showing a flat palm (visual cue).
- Wait 1–2 seconds, then say your release word (“Okay,” “Free”) and reward.
- Build duration slowly.
- Increase the time your dog holds the position before releasing.
- Always return to your dog to reward—don’t call them out of a Stay initially.
- Add distance.
- Take one step back, then return and reward.
- Gradually increase the number of steps and vary your direction.
- Add distractions.
- Practice with toys nearby, people walking past, or mild noises.
- If your dog breaks the Stay, calmly reset and reduce the difficulty.
- Use real-life scenarios.
- Ask for a Stay while you open the front door, prepare food, or greet guests.
- This builds practical reliability.
- Reinforce with praise.
- Use a marker word like “Good” while they’re holding the Stay to reassure them they’re doing well.
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